Category Archives: Myers-Briggs & Personalities

On Being an ENFJ (open confessional letter)

After a conversation this morning, I began thinking about my personality as an ENFJ.  I reflected on how much I have evolved since my early 20s, and how to a well-seasoned & mature ENFJ; they might not be able to see we held the same title.  Now, as I’m nearing my 35th year of life,Continue reading “On Being an ENFJ (open confessional letter)”

Loving Your Introvert: Thoughts from an Extroverted Mama

 

These girls of mine couldn’t be more different. As they bounce, climb & jump. Slide, bump & crash on the inflated air of plastic, with hair spun back like a weavers tapestry making conversation in their own unique way.

As I stood outside of that chain-linked wall, holding the tape recorder while looking into a sea of children, hoping for at least one friend. So she stands with her Baa Baa the lamb, enticing little girls her size into conversation. She’s like a veteran captain taming the waves with her confidence & know-how of people. Her stature exudes confidence that is brilliant. When confronted with the sea of strangers, she dives in deeper.

While her older sister imbues a cautious observation. One I know. To scan the scenery before plunging forth; yet, she differs by being content on her own. I, on the other hand, scan…observe, in order to make a move.

Where do Women Extroverts Fit into the Church?

My fellow extroverted friend Logan & myself Of late, there is a lot of talk of introversion & extroversion, mainly the introversion.  I have read over four to five articles in the last two months alone about how introverts feel misunderstood.  Some of these are biased & others are not.   One book circulating (whichContinue reading “Where do Women Extroverts Fit into the Church?”

Day 17 :: ENFP the Champion & INFP the Healer

  If you are just joining us on the 31 days of Myers-Briggs series, be sure to read about these empathetic & benevolent Idealists.  Yesterday I wrote about the ENFJ & INFJ and today we learn about the more open-ended NFs.    Diplomatic Intellect & Diplomatic Roles While the ENFJ (Teacher) & INFJ (Counselor) pairedContinue reading “Day 17 :: ENFP the Champion & INFP the Healer”

Day 16 :: ENFJ the Teacher & INFJ the Counselor

    Before you read about these Mentors, make sure you read about the common traits of the Idealists.   Now, one thing I’ve realized in writing these posts on each type is certain types make it harder to know them, simply because they are reserved or reserved & thinking types.  I’m also reminded thatContinue reading “Day 16 :: ENFJ the Teacher & INFJ the Counselor”

Day 15 :: The Idealists (NFs)

     Idealists are Intuitive Feeling types.  They are the rare breed who believes in justice & a higher power beyond themselves, in order to bring hope & change into the world.  Their name Idealists is exactly how they believe, in bringing hopeful ideals to society.  With their ideals & convictions, they can be dogmatic;Continue reading “Day 15 :: The Idealists (NFs)”

Day 14 :: ISFJ the Protector & ESFJ the Provider

   Well folks, almost half way through.  I have no idea who is actually keeping up with all of this, but I will continue to run the race set out for me & fight to the end.  With that in mind, leave a comment on what you think of this series.  I want your input,Continue reading “Day 14 :: ISFJ the Protector & ESFJ the Provider”

Day 13:: ISTJ the Inspectors & ESTJ the Supervisor

Dwight: ISTJ After writing about the Guardians, today I get to write about the “thinking” portion of the SJ group. The Inspector (ISTJ) and the Supervisor (ESTJ). They are considered the Logistical Administrators, because they administrate the inner workings of things, systems & organizations. Expressive Logistical Administrator: Supervisors are said to “enforce standard operating procedures”Continue reading “Day 13:: ISTJ the Inspectors & ESTJ the Supervisor”

Day 12:: The Guardians (SJ)

  My little SJ Tay & my SJ sister in law Can I say that I have a love-hate relationship with Guardians?  Well, it’s not so much hate, but a bit in awe & wonder (& slightly envious) of Guardians ability & skill set to bring order to systems.  Love, because some of the peopleContinue reading “Day 12:: The Guardians (SJ)”